Clear the Clutter!
I found this letter I had written myself for a “rainy day.” You know, one of those days that nothing seems to be going right, depression begins to set in, and you can’t seem to focus on God’s goodness- no matter how hard you try. Perhaps it’ll help you for a rainy day too!
You must be in the middle of a horrendous rain storm. Hail, lightening, severe wind, stinging rain, and dark clouds surround you. Don’t give up! The storm will pass. Sunshine is on the way!
While in the midst of this storm there are a few things to remember:
- The task ahead of you is never as great as the power within you.
“I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”
- Guard your heart, but don’t lock it up.
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
- God will be faithful to complete what He has started with you. He hasn’t quit. Don’t you quit either!
“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
- Let go of control. God’s got this!
- If something hasn’t gone right, try again!
- Do you need to change your perspective? How is this storm good for you?
Even when we don’t understand what God is doing (and this horrible storm) we can still trust His promises.
Do something right now that will fill you up.
Smile, even though it hurts. You are loved and appreciated.
“I think I’ll go get a new hat,” she said one day. “One that fits just right, is pretty, colorful, and everyone will just adore it!”
So, she set out in search of the perfect hat.
At the first store she found a purple one with bright yellow feathers. It made her feel like royalty. She wore it around the store for a few minutes, but it didn’t feel quite right. It didn’t feel like her. So, she moved on.
The next place drew her to try on a creme colored derby hat with a beautiful red ribbon around it. This one made her feel fun. But again, something didn’t feel right. And again, she moved on.
She thought for sure she would find one at her favorite hat store just another block down. She walked excitedly toward it.
When out of the blue, she ran into an old, dear friend. They chit-chatted a bit about family, life, the weather, and the upcoming bazaar at church. Her friend asked what she was doing in town today.
“I’m hunting a new hat,” she said. “One that fits just right, is pretty, colorful, and everyone will just adore it.”
“Oh,” said her friend somewhat confused. “You mean like the one you have on?”
“What? This old thing? I’ve had it for decades!”
“Well,” her friend said, “I think it suits you perfectly. It fits just right, is pretty, colorful, and everyone adores it!”
“Hmmm,” she thought. You just might be right.
How often do we feel like we are in a rut and decide we want something new, or want to change who we are, or change what we look like? And we might “try on” all sorts of new things: this diet or that diet, trendy clothes, a new job,or even a new town. When in fact, who we are in our core to begin with is what feels comfortable. It’s being true to ourselves and not conforming to the ways of the world. Not believing the lies that we’re not enough. Not believing the media that we have to look this way or act this way to be cool or be the best friend.
So often we try to run and hide from who we are. Because it’s scary to face the deep down. The hurts. The what if’s. The I wish I wouldnt’s. Know this:
God created you perfectly! Just as you are! No piece or part of you was a mistake.
And when we go and try to change that we’re telling God he made a mistake.
How many times have I been guilty of this very thing?!?! (too many)
So, how can we honor who God made us?
By believing we are enough. Just as we are. We are loved. We are cherished. And more than we could ever imagine. Believe.
Have you ever been somewhere that felt like a dark valley? A place that is full of negativity, condemnation, and just plain icky?
How can you even begin to bring a little positive light to a place like this?
Well, that is what God has asked me to do in a certain situation I’m in. And if I’m honest, I’m struggling with it. But God spoke some truth to my heart recently.
Joshua 10:8 says, “Do not be afraid of them; I have given them into your hand. Not one of them will be able to withstand you.”
So, a little backstory about this passage: Joshua is leading the Israelites into the promised land and they have to battle all the people who are already living there to be able to take possession of the land. And it’s scary. And God tells Joshua not to worry because the battle has already been won. He just has to follow through with the fighting.
Now, I’m not thinking God wants me to fight with people. But he does want me to be a light for Him in this particular place. And he’s telling me the battle is already won. I just have to keep my eyes on Him and “fight” through the darkness with my sunshine.
I’m going to press on. How about you?
How can you be sunshine in a dark valley?
The Hunger Game: Want to learn to play?!?!
I’m here to teach you how to tell the difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger by playing the “Hunger Game.”
But first, why am I talking about emotional hunger vs. physical hunger and what’s the difference?
Emotional hunger means you turn to food either to avoid uncomfortable emotions or to heighten pleasurable ones. It means you eat based on how you feel instead of what your body needs.
Examples of emotional hunger (FEELINGS):
- Eating for comfort or out of loneliness or sadness
- Eating from boredom
- Eating to try to soothe anxious or depressed feelings
- Eating to fill an aching heart
Whereas physical hunger means you eat when your body signals to you that you are in fact, hungry. And it means that you stop eating when you are satisfied and before you are uncomfortably full.
Examples of physical hunger (SENSATIONS):
- Stomach growls and gets that hollow hungry sensation
- Body feels weak and energy goes down
- Blood sugar gets low and you feel shaky
- You feel lightheaded or faint
So what will learning to listen to my body do for me?
It will free you from being a slave to food!
What that means for you is that you’ll feel more in control of your eating and less dependent on food to “help” your moods and emotions. By listening to your physical hunger signals, you can determine how hungry or full you really are. With practice, you’ll be able to pinpoint where your body is at any given moment.
By doing so, you will train yourself to stop eating BEFORE you are too full and to not turn to food when you are not actually hungry but are in fact bored, upset, anxious, or depressed. Because everyone knows that’s a vicious cycle…so let me show you how to end that cycle and have some fun while doing it!
ENTER…….the Hunger Game!
How do I play the Hunger Game?
Let me first clarify that I’m not talking about undergoing top-secret weapons training to learn to “kill” off your colleagues or friends… I’m talking about a simple, helpful game that you can play all by yourself even in a busy restaurant!
Here’s how you play the Hunger Game:
- See if you can be the slowest eater at the table – no one has to know you’re playing or that you’re trying to win the Hunger Game
- Periodically check in with yourself throughout your meal and honor when you’re energized and satisfied by completing the meal
- Use and end-of-meal ritual, like putting your napkin over your plate or ordering hot tea and fresh fruit to symbolize completion of the meal
What do I do now?
In my health coaching practice, I help my clients learn to tell the difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger. Together, we come up with a plan to help you keep identifying the difference so you can lose weight naturally and double your energy.
If you think you may be engaging in emotional eating and you don’t know how to change it, then click here now to schedule a time to talk with me today!
To your health!